Showing posts with label Character. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Character. Show all posts

Saturday, November 20, 2010

The Lonely Ember


A member of a certain church, who previously had been attending services regularly, stopped going.

After a few weeks, the pastor decided to visit him. It was a chilly evening. The pastor found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire.

Guessing the reason for his pastor's visit, the man welcomed him, led him to a big chair near the fireplace and waited. The pastor made himself comfortable but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the play of the flames around the burning logs.

After some minutes, the pastor took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone. Then he sat back in his chair, still silent. The host watched all this in quiet fascination.
As the one lone ember's flame diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and "dead as a doornail."

Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting.

Just before the pastor was ready to leave, he picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it.

As the pastor reached the door to leave, his host said, "Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall be back in church next Sunday."

by Dr John MacArthur

Friday, February 27, 2009

Twist of fate rewrote Dotzler's dream script


Great article here about Josh Dotzler and his life lessons:

Call him a survivor. Dotzler's senior day at Creighton arrives on Saturday. It's been a long career, a good one in many ways, but not the one he or anyone else dreamed of four years ago.

Somebody lost the Hollywood script. Dotzler had it all in front of him back then. He had committed to Creighton as a sophomore at Bellevue West. His team won the state title his senior year. He was a two-time Nebraska Player of the Year. Big-time schools were starting to look at him. But he was going to Creighton.

He matched the hype as a freshman. Dotzler ranked high among Missouri Valley guards in steals and assists and assist/turnover margin. He had a jumper. He could guard. He was on the road to becoming one of the best players ever to wear a Bluejay uniform, certainly one of the most popular. This was the Omaha hoops dream.

Doctors repair knees, not dreams.

Dotzler suffered a torn PCL (posterior cruciate ligament) in his right knee. It's rare, almost fluky. Players can come back from ACL tears. But PCL injuries are different. They are ruthless. They rob potential. They gut dreams.

"I really haven't thought about it, except when people ask," Dotzler said. "I truly believe things happen for a reason, so you can learn from all experiences. There's no sense in thinking about what might have been, because it's not going to happen."

Josh said, "There were times when I thought, should I even be playing? Am I good enough to play on this team? Am I good enough to play on this level? I went through some tough times. I never dealt with injuries before, never sat out. I didn't know if my body would respond."

Dotzler did not fall apart. He comes from a large family, a good family. He's married. He's mature. He's extremely grounded and classy. He has more than basketball to fall back on, even as he continues to dive for loose balls. And he has been a mentor to freshman point guard Antoine Young, who grew up watching Dotzler at Bellevue West. The torch is being passed with care.

"I've learned a lot from Josh," Young said. "I've watched him as a leader, watched how he conducts himself every day. I admired his toughness. He's taught me a lot about toughness, about leadership."

People sometimes wonder why Dotzler plays over Young. One man doesn't. There have been times Dotzler was the only player on the floor playing defense, the only guy doing the things Altman preached. He has been a poster boy for this program.

"Josh has brought so many good qualities to the program," Altman said. "His assist-to-turnover ratio (3.0, top five in the nation) is outstanding. He's a good defender. And he's been a leader. He comes to practice every day trying to get the other guys to play hard. Before games he'll be trying to get them going. That's draining. He's had to carry that load."